VOL. 4 · MAY 30, 2026

End of May. Last Saturday of the month.

THE RESEARCH — The Honest Case for Cold

Czech researchers in 2000 immersed healthy men up to the neck in 14°C (57°F) water for one hour. By minute sixty, their norepinephrine had jumped 530%. Their dopamine 250%. The effects faded slowly over hours, like a long, clean exhale.

Cold has a real effect on the nervous system. But let me say what most cold-plunge influencers won't: it's not a miracle drug. As a physical therapist, I'll tell you the rehab case for cold immersion has shrunk considerably over the last decade — we now know icing after a hard training session can blunt the muscle-building response, and a lot of the recovery claims haven't held up the way we thought they would.

The honest case for cold is simpler: it requires you to voluntarily suffer a small amount, and there is real utility in that. The body and the mind both get something out of choosing the harder thing on purpose. That's not nothing — but it's not magic, either.

The takeaway: Don't buy the supplement-stack version of cold. Buy the discipline version. The point isn't that ice fixes your hormones. The point is that you can train yourself, in two minutes, to do something you don't want to do. That capacity will serve you in places ice never could.

Šrámek et al., 2000 (European Journal of Applied Physiology, 81(5), 436–442)

WORTH REMEMBERING

Most men spend their teens, twenties, and thirties trying to remove obstacles from the path. Then somewhere around forty, the better men figure out the obstacles aren't blocking the path. The obstacles are the path.

The hard conversation. The harder workout. The admission of guilt. The early morning. These aren't taxes you pay to live well. They are how you live well. The earlier you can learn this and teach it to the next generation, the better.

TRY THIS WEEK — Cold, Two Ways

Two options. Pick one and do it daily for seven days.

Option A — Sixty seconds at the end of the shower. Not lukewarm. Not "as cold as it goes" with the dial halfway. All the way. Until you don't want to and your wife starts questioning what is wrong with you (a question with no answer of course).

Option B — Face in a bowl. Fill a large bowl with cold water and ice. Hold your breath, dunk your face for as long as you can tolerate — start with 15 to 30 seconds. Come up, breathe, repeat three times. This is one of my personal favorites.

Option B is a different mechanism but a useful one. Cold water on the face — especially around the eyes and forehead — stimulates the trigeminal nerve, which activates the vagus nerve and slows your heart rate within seconds. It's the mammalian dive reflex, and DBT clinicians use it to interrupt panic attacks for that reason. It's not a substitute for full-body cold exposure — it's a different tool, calming where the plunge is "activating" (I really hate the word activate generally) — but it's real physiology, and it's the most accessible cold tool you've got.

Seven days. Pick a path. The point isn't which one you pick. The point is you do something you don't really want to do, on purpose.

FROM THE BOOKSHELF — Man's Search for Meaning by Viktor Frankl

Frankl's book helped me crawl out of nihilism and a rudderless existence. He was a Viennese psychiatrist who lost his wife, parents, and brother to the Nazi camps. He survived, walked out, and within nine days wrote one of the most important books of the 20th century.

The thesis is simple: meaning is not something you find. It's something you choose — even in conditions designed to extinguish you. Frankl's prisoners who survived weren't always the strongest. They were the ones who had a "why" — a person to come home to, a book to finish, a calling to serve. He had everything taken from him and yet he found a reason to go forward.

It will take you an afternoon to get through and honestly should be a stapel on your family's bookshelf. When you are done, ask yourself the only question that matters: what is your why? Most men I coach can't answer it cleanly at first. Start writing down your thoughts no matter how silly you think they sound. Wrestle with meaning my friend.

CLOSING THOUGHT

May is gone.

Whatever you said you'd start in 2026 — May was a quarter of the year. If it's not happening yet, the calendar is asking a fair question.

I'm not interested in shame about it. Shame doesn't move men. It usually makes them hide or act foolishly. Reps move men. June starts Monday. Pick one thing. Your marriage, your relationship with your children. The weightroom. The scale. The book you refuse to start.

Start with one rep. Then repeat.

Saturday by Saturday, that's all this is. Five things, every week. One small choice at a time.

Thanks for reading the first month with me. We're just getting started boys.

See you next Saturday.

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